im still in the process of formulating my new year's resolution. if this year's focus was me and improving my sense of discipline and commitment (no surprise there, ive always been too self-centered to care about other people than me), next year's focus, as it appears to me at the moment, would revolve around my relationship with other people. so its still me only it involves other people too. i tried "settling" some of them this year but it seems some things cant be rushed. so right now, i have 6 people i need to deal with next year.